Are you wondering how to save a relationship after a break up. Well, if you want to get your ex back, the very first thing you must do is to probably something you do not wish to do now. And that is to cut off contact with your ex.
Well, I know this is not an easy thing to do. You will probably feel hurt about doing that and to a certain extent, your ex may feel hurt as well.
However, for the sake of the long term, it may be worthwhile doing that.
First, you are simply too emotional now to be able to effectively win back your ex. With such an emotional state of mind, it is easy for you to do silly things that will push your ex away. You need this time to recover from your broken heart.
Second, cutting off contact with your ex will not give your ex the chance to used you. What do I mean by that? Well, your ex may not want to get back with you, yet is still willing to go out with you.
They are getting the best ofboth world. They can choose not to get back with you yet still get the attention and concern you shower them with.
But cutting off contact with your ex and playing the disappearing act, you are sort of telling your ex that the only way they can get your care and concern is to be your boyfriend/girlfriemd,, not just friends.
The third reason is to allow your ex to miss you. This is also a great way to create a bit of mystery around you. You want your ex to wonder what you have been up to.